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“What the New Year brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the New Year.”

-Vern McLellan

 The dawn of the New Year means different things to different people.

For some people, as the New Year approaches, there is always the anticipation of what the year has in store for them. These are the eternal optimists, who hanker after new beginnings and a fresh start. Regardless of the year gone by, they look forward to a clean slate and renewal of their hopes.

Their positivity and buoyancy may run out of steam pretty fast but come another New Year, they would be there cheering on the sidelines, the harbingers heralding in the fresh start.

Humanity in general is indebted to this lot; without their perpetual optimism and faith, the spirit of New Year celebrations would wane for sure. It is their assured expectations of the New Year, their steadfast mantra that tomorrow would dawn brighter than ever, that makes the festive spirit so lively and infectious.

We have very little to worry about this crowd; they may not be the realists but definitely they are the ones who keep the world spinning and spreading good cheer in its wake.

On the other hand, with everything having its yin and yang aspects, there is definitely another group on the complete opposite side of the spectrum. This lot live in apprehension of what the New Year is going to bring.

Hardly has the countdown finished, when their hopes for the New Year falter.  For some of them even before the last spark of the festive fireworks hits the ground, the anticipation soon turns into anxiety.  The celebrations quieten down but the voices of their disquiet continue.

Their crippling fears emanate not from the unknown nature of the New Year but from their known letdowns and disillusionments of the past year.  The year gone by is not the glorified sum of all its parts but only a blinkered version of the glossier highlights to them; the result being a year not well-spent. What if the coming year too speeds them by, leaving them with very little to remember and commemorate? What would they have to show for another year in terms of their living or their accomplishments?

It is perhaps the biblical parable of the talents all over again but why place such stringent expectations on oneself? Perhaps self-acceptance and not self-criticism is the key!

Not all of us can aspire to truly belong to the first group, but we can surely spare ourselves the despair of the latter. Perhaps the light bulb moment for most of us should be that a year need not be measured only by its zeniths. If a year had no alarming troughs or resonating ripples, isn’t that a blessing in itself?

Not all plans come to fruition but the fact that we are still around to greet another New Year with our near and dear ones in good health and wellbeing is a celebration in itself!

To the New Year and to us!

Mourning

“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it–always.”

– Mahatma Gandhi

As usual, every year around this time, I was getting ready to write my annual post about the festive season and the joys of living and celebration. A very upbeat post is what I had intended, as my Christmas posts normally tend to be!

But how things changed, all of a sudden, in the blink of an eye!

Within 24 hours, my buoyant mood had disappeared and I am sitting here at the keyboard, numb and wrought with grief.  Today the Sydney siege is over but the country is still reeling from the aftermath of one man’s psychosis.

I cannot stop contemplating the fragility of our lives, nor can I come to terms with the injustice of such situations.  We would like to believe that our worlds are safe and buffered, that we can keep other external forces and terrors at bay, but the truth, at times, can be very far from it.  The reality is no one is really immune to the horrors of today’s world; our own safe perimeters can be breached anytime and our peaceful existences shattered in an instant. The Columbine massacre, the September 11 attacks, the Colorado movie theatre shootings are attestations of our everyday normal lives crumbling instantaneously.

We are not new to such catastrophes; we see such incidents unfolding everywhere but the shock of this particular tragedy is it happening in our own backyards. It is the outrageousness of the situation; where normal people like you and me can be taken hostages in a coffee-shop; where innocent lives can be cut short rather senselessly and so callously by the despicable actions of a lunatic is what makes it so unacceptable.

We all struggle to come to terms seeing such beautiful lives wasted in a second but yet that seems to be the decree of today’s life, especially in a world that’s punctuated by such irrational and abhorrent acts. The day is not yet over and even as I sit down to write these words, I am listening to yet another breaking news of 100 or so innocent lives lost in Pakistan to more evil that grips our world.

It is at moments like this our faith in humanity is shaken to the core but yet the festive season seems to be the testimony of our resilient spirit and the human race in general coping with such tragedies.

Life goes on and we will eventually move on too, but we can only hope that the lives and the heroism of innocent people killed in such senseless and random acts of terror are never forgotten.

As we move towards celebrating the festive season, let us take a few moments to remember and pray for the grieving families who are experiencing such devastating loss and crippling heartache.

Traditions

“What an enormous magnifier is tradition! How a thing grows in the human memory and in the human imagination, when love, worship, and all that lies in the human heart, is there to encourage it.”

-Thomas Carlyle

Every year on the first of December, I send a mail to my postgraduate classmates. We had met in 2008 from different parts of the world to pursue our Masters in Europe. Till then I hadn’t even realised such countries existed, let alone I would meet and make friends with people from all these places. At first, we had very little in common, except perhaps our mutual aspiration to study; however by the time we graduated, we had developed some genuine and long lasting friendships.

For the last four years, as soon as the festive month dawns, I initiate the email chain and await their responses, not without some trepidation. I know some emails will bounce as more and more people are getting off the email bandwagon and are actively pursuing other social media. Some others will disappear into cyberspace black holes with no responses whatsoever emanating from them. But I still persist and continue the tradition of writing to them, with my hope never unwavering.

Very soon within days of the first mail, the email responses start trickling in from all parts of the world, a tribute to our memories and the times together.  We pick up from where we left as if time and distance never matters. Funnily enough most of them are on Facebook and other social media, but still, they look forward to these emails.

Without question, everyone is greatly appreciative of the email I send to kick-start the annual cyber reunion but I remind them repeatedly it is not me who keeps the tradition alive but them. Without their reciprocated efforts to reach out and respond, my email will certainly not garner any responses. After all, it only becomes a tradition when a practice is revived and fortified through the synergy of the group.

I could have chosen anytime of the year to kick off my own little ritual but I always believe December is the apt month for it.  This is the most magical period when traditions come alive all over the world, gather momentum and turn into universal and compelling life-forces of their own.

When we look around us, we can see proof of their delightful existence in every single action of ours during this festive season. The decorations, the shopping, the gifts, the food, the celebrations, the holidays, the sharing and the list goes on. Every family has their own tradition of celebrating this season – some old, some made up, some quaint and some quirky too.  Whatever it is, every single ritual gets repeated year after year, perhaps altered in some small fashion but the true essence of it never losing its lustre or its fascination to the ones who truly believe in it.

Despite the over the top and frenzied commercialism at times, this season is the embodiment of not just our faith but our beliefs and our everlasting traditions.  We may not fully know the origins or the significance of most of our traditions, but we still continue to follow them; their sameness and their routine providing a sense of reassurance and stability in some fashion.

Without a doubt, these traditions, not only instil a sense of hope within us and give us something to look forward to, but are also the binding forces of our community at times, never failing to bring us all together.

Season’s greetings to all!

On wheels..

“The hardest part of raising a child is teaching them to ride bicycles.”

  • Sloan Wilson

 

“My PE teacher must think it runs in the family; first me now him not knowing how to ride a bike.”

Despite my daughter’s potshot at our slack parenting skills, I burst into laughter. It was bike education week at school and my daughter was concerned that her brother was going to miss it like she did three years ago. Despite my giggles, I couldn’t help the twinge of guilt that we hadn’t taught our son to ride yet.

My daughter had taught herself two years ago but my son was a different story. Content to spending his time indoors with his electronics, he never showed any interest in his bike until now, when he wanted to take it to school.

As for us, we always had some excuse or the other not to go bike riding; if it wasn’t the heat, then it was the cold or the winds. Now another round of bike Ed was upon us and my son’s bike still had its training wheels on.

Growing up, like most kids in my neighbourhood, I had learnt to ride a bike on my own.  Hardly relying on our parents, learning to ride was some kind of initiation ritual that each kid went through. As bicycles were our most common and affordable means of transport then, it was more out of necessity than choice, to learn.

Not most of us even owned a bike then; we used to pool our meagre pocket money and hire a dilapidated contraption for a few hours from the nearby cycle repair shop. If we were lucky, the cycle would stand our hours of abuse while we often fell, scraped both our knees and arms and the hardly remaining paint on the cycle. But at the end of it all, at least one kid would have learnt to balance and ride while the rest of us watched in awe and of course, envy. The saga would continue on and off for the next few months till we were confident enough to raid our parents’ cycles.

My dad, more out of concern of saving his own ride from my hands, bought me a second hand cycle, once I learnt to stay on the bike without taking a tumble. It was probably a cycle’s version of a Frankenstein’s monster; no two parts were painted the same colour and certainly didn’t look like they belonged to the same cycle. However it was my very own set of wheels and I was attached to it for a long time.

With all these memories rushing back, I longed to own a bike again. However, given my regular spats with the region’s weather and retreating indoors for the larger part of the year, I didn’t want to buy one only to have it wasting away in the garage. I decided to do the next best thing and teach my son to ride instead.

I was determined he was at least going to push his bike to bike Ed this year. As it was only a week away I didn’t have much hope for him learning to ride by then. I was prepared for weeks of agonising tumbles and scrapes before he learnt to sit upright on his bike.

However to my pleasant surprise, he was sailing confidently on his bike within the hour. I don’t know who was more chuffed when he rode his bike to bike Ed but now I am one content parent when I see my son racing outside after school to ride his bike every day.

Be it any generation, it is no doubt an evergreen and special ritual learning to ride a bike.

Originally published in November 2014:
http://www.theweeklyadvertiser.com.au/2014/11/19/riding-high-after-learning-to-cycle/

Curve balls..

“Just when we think we figured things out, the universe throws us a curveball. So, we have to improvise.”

-Grey’s Anatomy

 

“When life throws a curve ball…..”

Perhaps one of the most clichéd sayings out there, but nevertheless a phrase that’s been in my mind lately.

Life isn’t smooth sailing; it is one of the premises that most of us have been raised upon. We are perhaps coached right from a young age to expect nothing but the unexpected and yet when life throws a curve ball at us, it certainly knocks the wind out of our sails.

Most often when we see someone around us undergoing a sudden trauma or an unexpected personal tragedy in their life, our heart goes out to them.  Beneath the multi-fold layers of our genuine concern and sympathy, even if we don’t admit to ourselves let alone others, at times we have felt the tiniest slivers of relief that it is not us walking in their shoes.  It is at such moments that even the ones most distanced from any kind of divinity, perhaps, might be grateful for the blessings in their own lives.

It is not that we become any less humane in experiencing such feelings.  One could say it is our highly honed sense of self-preservation kicking in or perhaps our inherent fears surfacing that we may not be strong enough as the next person to handle such experiences.  Whatever it is, it most certainly leaves us more appreciative of our own circumstances.

As for the hapless, victimised by life’s sudden turns, any semblance of normalcy or stability soon becomes yesterday’s story. Yet, some of them seem to withstand such unfortunate happenings in their life, remain positive and still come out winning, never failing to amaze us with their fortitude and resilience.

Personally, I have always wondered if these people were born with such an attitude or was it a serendipitous outcome of their enduring spirit.

Despite coming from both a culture and a personal background that stresses on caution and restraint and frowns heavily on straying far from the sidewalks of life, I have to say it has still left me unprepared to deal with the unforeseen wakeup calls of reality.

The irony is in the face of curve balls, any kind of preparedness falls short as one is never prepared in actuality to see our lives upturned or unravelling at the seams. Even our best laid schemes of risk management are thwarted in the face of unwanted surprises that life seems to whack at us, especially where our health is concerned.

The good news is life still goes on and one is not given the luxury of freeze framing such moments that redefine our lives or analyse it pixel by pixel. Out of nowhere, we are compelled to find the strength to soldier on, to dredge up the buried reserves of optimism and continue on our journey hoping that tomorrow might bring us better news. If not, at least leave us better prepared!

And that’s when we realise we have unwittingly conquered some of our fears and perhaps are on our way to joining the ranks of those whose stoicism and strength we once admired and even coveted.

Originally published in October 2014:
http://www.theweeklyadvertiser.com.au/2014/10/16/trying-to-deal-with-lifes-curve-balls/

Teacher’s Day

“A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops.

– Henry Adams

While visiting India recently, I tried to reach a friend on her mobile. On the rare occasion when I attempted to call people of my own volition, I was having trouble reaching her. Anyway she returned my call later and told me she had been busy as it was Teachers Day celebrations at school. It was then I remembered the date and its significance.

There are days for almost everything now, that one loses count.  However, growing up, the only days we had celebrated as typical school functions were Teachers Day and Children’s day. On Teachers Day, students usually go to great efforts to organize events and programs as a mark of respect and appreciation for the teachers at school.

As for me, Teachers day meant very little for me in terms of recognition or gratitude for any of my teachers. I only looked forward to the day as regular classes were ditched. Even though I fared well in my studies, I had an intense dislike for school and found it hard to bond with anything related to my classes, including teachers. I might have liked one or two but in general I was wary of authority figures and hardly acknowledged or credited anyone with shaping or guiding my early years. My lack of regard and perhaps gravity for anything related to school and university later, had perhaps discoloured my opinions about teachers and mentors. I regret that I never gave them due credit even for the few who genuinely deserved it.

It wasn’t till I started my career that I was in a position to appreciate how personalities can be shaped by effective mentorship. On my first day of work in Australia, fresh out of university with literally no work experience, I came across my first mentor. Staff introductions were completed and I had just arrived at my desk when my team leader handed me a heavy user manual and a task. He told me that all I needed to complete the given task was in that book and to get cracking on it.

I had moved several companies after that and found that on day one people are usually given documentation or other equally exciting (not) tasks to trawl through but never put to actual work as I had been in that workplace.

Even though my team leader said he was available for help and quite often checked on me, his words implied I rather complete the task on my own.  It was still early days for Dr Google so the manual and a very reticent (and mildly annoyed) work neighbour, apart from the team leader were all the resources I had. After a rough start with a new computer language and work environment, I persisted and finally presented the solution at the end of the week to my team leader.  He hardly said anything at that time but months later admitted that I had passed his challenge with flying colours.

He wasn’t perhaps the most organised or meticulous or necessarily the expert in his area, but he is always the one I remember as laying the foundation in moulding me to be the self-reliant professional I am today.  I have had other mentors who have continued and still continue his work and taught me several valuable lessons in my career, but he tops the list as the one who taught me the true meaning of working independently.

As I always say, life’s valuable lessons come from the oddest teachers.  I now recognise mentors in all aspects of my life and I am more than grateful for these people who have contributed to my growth as a person and hopefully for the better.  I may no longer remember Teachers Day but I most definitely have a cherished spot for all these mentors in my life.

Originally published in September 2014:
http://www.theweeklyadvertiser.com.au/2014/09/24/mentor-thanks/

“You wear a mask for so long, you forget who you were beneath it.”

– Alan Moore

 

The other day, I was reluctantly dragged into house cleaning duties. Not the ideal way to spend a weekend, especially in winter with the constant lure of sleep-ins.  However, with another rental inspection creeping up, I had very little choice.  Anyway while I was unleashing my usual ‘binning’ prowess at the bottomless hoard of my children’s toys, out fell this Venetian mask from my daughter’s closet.

It was one of those cheap trinkets that you see everywhere, but still there was a delicate elegance to it that I couldn’t overlook.  I guess most people are taken in by the appealing looks of these masks especially when worn in en masse at the carnivals.  While some may find their stony, lifeless expressions eerie, I generally find these cultural props quite alluring, especially with their elaborate ornate design.

While I was dithering whether to bin it or keep it, I couldn’t help but wonder how many of us wear our own version of these masks in our everyday life.  Perhaps not such elaborate bejewelled masks, but I guess we do pretty good with our ‘poker face’ masks in our so-called carnival of life.

How many times have we masked our true feelings, burying our emotions and putting our deadpan expressions on display?  How often have we bit down on those searing truths waiting to explode on our lips?  Even if it weren’t for propriety, decorum or political correctness that society imposes on us and expects us to conform to by keeping a rein on our lesser emotions, we sometimes resign ourselves to bury our candour out of best intentions.

Many a times, we are held back from voicing our true thoughts out of concern for others and fear of offending others.  We would rather weave a web of false platitudes and embroil ourselves in insincerities than speak our mind which may perhaps shock, hurt or even anger the recipient, however well- deserved these truths may be.

Often it simply boils down to our well-honed sense of self-preservation too.  It is perhaps an effort to mask our vulnerabilities and to keep the world at bay, rather than expose the chink in our armour.

However, imagine how refreshing it would be to be candid and call a spade a spade! But instead we don our ‘social’ masks and choose to put up with insufferable personalities, tedious company, unreasonable demands, irrational behaviour, insensitive acts and everything else that leeches our time, energy and emotions. And on top of it, the battering our personal integrity takes when the masked imposter pops up is the icing on the cake.

However this very same caution that we exercise judiciously in wearing our impenetrable masks in public doesn’t seem to extend to our own near and dear ones.  At times, it seems like for all the careful camouflaging that is maintained outside of home, there is regrettably no holding back, especially with lesser emotions, within the confines of our own walls.

Centuries after the tradition’s origin, the masked intrigue continues even in today’s modern world……

Originally published in July 2014:
http://www.theweeklyadvertiser.com.au/2014/07/30/masking-what-we-really-think/

DIY…

“I swiftly discovered that there are few things in DIY (and possibly life) that can’t be solved with a large mallet, a bag of ten-centimetre nails and some swearing.”
Monty Halls

The other day my friend was quite excited about her upcoming first trip to an IKEA store. Rewind over 10 years ago and I was reminded of my own first trip to IKEA in Brisbane.  Having heard of this huge store, I decided to visit it and dragged along my very unwilling husband; his reluctance stemming from the fact that such jaunts of mine never ended as mere window-shopping excursions.

When it comes to furniture, heavy wooden or antique looking pieces never piqued my interest. So I took an immediate liking to the clean, simple lines and the trendy modern look of the store’s merchandise. After excitedly selecting a book case and paying for it, I headed to the collection area and was enquiring about delivery when I was shown a rather flat package.

Now most people thrive on DIY projects these days. Everywhere you turn around, the talk is all about doing it yourself.  Even more and more television shows are targeted at such programs lately. In addition, with YouTube and Dr Google coming to the aid, a growing number of people find it affordable and even more so fashionable being creative and doing most things on their own. There is no doubt an immense sense of satisfaction at building or constructing or even assembling something on your own.

Things weren’t any different even before; however having come from a country where labour was usually affordable, DIY was never a part of our lingo. Till then whatever few eclectic pieces of furniture we possessed had always come assembled. So I felt that the IKEA package with my name on it was mocking at our lack of such skills. At least today we can put together a collection of assorted tools in our house but at that time even finding a decent mallet at our place was hard let alone possessing an Allen key.

Luckily the package arrived with the required tools but we were still left with the challenge of putting it all together. After a few painful days and a lot of colourful swearing, the book case was complete albeit not as elegant or professional as the floor piece. But we were deliriously chuffed at our workmanship however grotesque it turned out.

Since then I have made several visits not only to IKEA but other stores as well but I have learnt to usually stick to pieces where not much assembling is required. I steer clear of any arduous projects but despite my caution, I do occasionally end up with pieces where our much needed DIY skills are put to the test.  Quite recently we ended up putting a bunk bed together and the entire family was glad to see the end of the much drawn-out process! But in all sincerity we have come a long way since our initial IKEA days.  What would have normally taken us a week based on the instruction booklet’s 8 hours took us only two days, and that’s what I would call as progress.

If all this fuss is just for assembling furniture, let’s not even go anywhere near putting up sheds, building fences, landscaping or even painting. While most of my Aussie friends take much delight in such DIY activities I still continue to run miles away from such projects and instead turn to the yellow pages and start making phone calls.

Well, what I can say, each to their own, right?

Originally published in July 2014:
http://www.theweeklyadvertiser.com.au/2014/07/02/do-it-yourself-i-dont-think-so/

Mother’s Day

“The excellence of a gift lies in its appropriateness rather than its value.”

– Charles Dudley Warner

 

It was just after moving to Horsham that my children discovered Mother’s Day.  Although it wasn’t something that we normally would have celebrated, the children, having gotten old enough, insisted on setting a new tradition within the family.

So the first year when my six year old came home with his first Mother’s Day gift for me, I was simply touched.  Around that time, he often struggled to even remember to bring his reader bag and lunch box home, but yet that he remembered to buy a gift for me, albeit several prompts from his older sister for sure,  was quite endearing.

My son had gotten me a pair of cosy legwarmers from the Mother’s Day stall at his school.  He had probably remembered my constant whine about the cold given that I was still getting used to my winters here.  He told me that the moment he set his eyes on the socks, he thought of me and how I hated the cold. That year, I had received several other gifts, quite pricey and lovely, but to this day, it is my son’s thoughtful one dollar gift that I treasure.  Every winter since then, it is this pair of legwarmers that I fondly wear to bed.

Ever since then I must have chewed off everyone’s ears by retelling this story over and over, however I never get tired of it.  Even this year, I quite eagerly anticipate what quirky gift he is going to bring home as there will always be a personal touch, a thoughtful gesture in his gift-giving.   One year it was a bookmark and the following year it was a lovely sequined vanity bag that fits neatly into my handbag – gifts that quite match my interests and perhaps my personality too but above all gifts that I still continue to use.

There are several corny sayings when it comes to the act of giving but still the most clichéd one is perhaps what screws up gift-giving for most of us.  Haven’t we been on both the giving and receiving end of senseless, obligatory and rather absurd gifts and in the end we pacify ourselves that it’s the intention that matters.  We can possibly get away with impersonal and awkward gifts to acquaintances and even friends, but when it comes to our dear and loved ones, perhaps some sensitivity might be appreciated.

Most often we give for the sake of giving; of course shopping for the right gift is not easy, especially given the abundance of options out there as we all know.  And yes, it is definitely tempting to succumb to consumerism and seek the easiest way out, ending up with the usual rigmarole of buying unimaginative and routine gifts on sale.

Maybe we should question ourselves the real motive behind the giving?  If gifts are bestowed as a sign of appreciation for the person, then are we truly taking the needs and interests of the recipient into account?  So perhaps giving ought to be focused on the uniqueness and distinctive qualities of the person, or else we will merely be displaying a dearth of thoughtfulness and effort on our part.

So next time we are shopping for a gift, let’s not get ourselves off the hook lightly by saying it is just the thought that counts but instead spend a few minutes on the appropriateness of the gift and also throw some genuine emotions into the mix.

After all when six year olds get it right, there is still hope for us, right?

Nostalgia is like a grammar lesson: You find the present tense, and the past perfect!

-Owens Lee Pomeroy

 

I was talking to a friend the other day and of course, inevitably the conversation turned to the weather.  It was quite a gloomy day, raining cats and dogs.  On such days, he said he wanted to sit in front of the TV, watching cartoons and listening to the rain thundering on the rooftop.  He commented such times reminded him of his childhood and repeating the experiences actually gave him a warm and fuzzy feeling.

He isn’t the only one who is caught reminiscing about the past.  We all are guilty of such little excursions into our past.  In fact even while we were having the conversation, I saw one of my own rainy days from the past flash in front of my eyes. I remember being twelve, reading a Nancy Drew mystery and snacking upon my mother’s unbeatable recipe of crispy potato chips while watching the rain pelting down through the windows.

Anytime anyone mentions warm and fuzzy and rain in the same sentence, I am always transported to this scene.  Perhaps, I have had more comfortable and happier settings associated with reading or snacking or even watching the rain, but it is always this scene that my mind flashes to when I hear a downpour.

It only takes the slightest excuse and perhaps trivial things to trigger one’s memories and have us hurtling down the memory lane. It could be just a memory, a song, a photo, or even a trinket; the triggers may vary but nostalgia remains the same. Some of us are never tired of the rose tinted glasses that we wear when it comes to the past.

The other time, a friend showed me her photos of the snow at the Grampians and I was immediately transported to my first snow experience in Edinburgh.  I still remember the season’s first snow that evening as the most magical moment.  I stood there spell-bound watching the tiny feather-like flakes swirl in the evening light while the entire landscape was hurriedly being coated in white. What I conveniently failed to remember was the next half hour that I spent crawling back to the dorm, clutching to whatever support was available and trying not to slip on the snow as I wasn’t wearing proper footwear.

For some reason, that memorable part of our lives from the past is always glorified and more pleasurable than the actual present.  At times we seem to seek refuge in these selective memories, choosing to forget about the discomforts or difficulties associated with them and thus creating a stash of somewhat distorted but momentously cherished memories to get us through everyday life.

Some of us always go an extra step further and try to recapture those moments again.  Even if they are nothing but pale echoes of the past, we still feel a ridiculous amount of satisfaction in recreating those moments.

It was only in the last century that nostalgia which was once considered as a medical illness has been welcome in the medical community as a benevolent condition, offering several psychological benefits.  Regardless of its medical past, we can assuredly say that turning to our nostalgic memories now and then can definitely help us with our journey in our life, especially through some of our bluest days!!

Originally published in June 2014:
http://www.theweeklyadvertiser.com.au/2014/06/05/walking-down-memory-lane/

 

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